for help. >> it's us helping each other. >> reporter: vines invited us to meet some who she met through the nonprofit she started five years ago called "family of a vet" which provides education and resources to caregivers. >> it impacts the whole family. >> reporter: this woman cares for her husband who was injured in iraq in 2006. >> i had to pull the gun out of my husband's mouth and for two years now he has blamed me every single day for saving his life. >> reporter: torrey shannon's husband suffered a head injury in 2004. >> i struggle because i feel like i'm not doing enough or i'm not doing everything the way i should be doing. i am a very strong and capable person who is of sound mind, but twice i tried to commit suicide. >> reporter: through their shared struggles these women are helping each other cope. where do you go from here? >> just keep going. you know, it's all about learning new ways to handle it and figuring out how to stay together as a family. >> reporter: for these military families the road to recovery is taking it one day at a time. michelle miller, cbs news, dap